What to Do If Your Partner Do Not Want to Have a Threesome While You Want It So Much?

A lot of couples enjoy the threesome experience as it is a very “hot” erotic lifestyle. However, most individuals don’t know how to persuade their partner into having a threesome. If want to have threesome but your partner doesn’t, don’t worry because persuading him/her may not be as difficult as you may think.

Let's say you are a man and want to persuade your girlfriend/wife into having a threesome. Depending on her sexuality, chances are she may already be more open to it than you think. You just need to find a way to make her comfortable about this whole experience.

Following tips will help:

1. Spice up your relationship: You don’t stand a chance at having a threesome with your partner if you have a conservative vibe relationship. A highly sexual tone is a must in your relationship. If you want to keep the hopes of a threesome alive, then it is recommended that you start your relationship with a sexually adventurous vibe. Spice up your relationship by trying freaky things and being ‘kinky’. Make sure you never make her feel judged when you try things in bed, otherwise your dream of threesome will die.

2. Don’t push her into doing something she does not feel comfortable doing: A threesome is NOT about destroying your relationship. So, don’t push your partner into doing something she does not feel comfortable doing as it will certainly destroy your relationship. Make sure she feels comfortable about this new experience.

3. Don’t make it a big deal: Most guys make a big deal about the threesome which immediately turns women off. Don’t ask her for a threesome, instead be confident and tell her that it’s going to happen. It’s all about setting up the correct vibe in your relationship. After that, it depends entirely on how strong of a leader you are. If you have led your partner through many amazing sexual experiences, then there’s a good chance that she will be willing to let you have a threesome.

4. Don’t make it about you: Women like to be in control. If you make this experience all about you, then your chances of experiencing a threesome will be lost. Make sure you make her feel secure about herself no matter what. Let her know that she will be the most important person in any scenario or situation.

5. Set some ground rules: If she seems agreeable but is nervous about this whole new experience, then it is recommended that you set up some ground rules. Ask her how does she want you to participate as well as discuss the boundaries she wants to set in a threesome scenario. It would also be a good idea to make her explain how she imagines it happening. This will increase the anticipation.

In conclusion, it is not difficult to persuade your partner into having a threesome. Your relationship must be rock solid and your partner must feel comfortable about this experience. Once your partner has been persuaded to explore this erotic lifestyle, only then will you be able to really enjoy threesome with others.